I am 24 weeks with my first and found out my friends are planning me a shower in January. My family lives about 3 hours from where I live and where the shower will be. No family has mentioned anything about having a local shower. My friends that are hosting want to know how many people I want to invite so they can get the invites ordered. Is it still early or is it safe to assume I am not having a shower near my family and invite them to the friend shower? I don't want them to feel left out, but I don't want to seem "gift grabby" either. I travel for work and the Dr. asked me to not travel outside the city after week 35.