Slightly off topic- on another forum I visit I read a post about a family that refused to give a baby shower to an unwed mother. I thought that was completely ridiculous and out dated. Then a few days later I mentioned it to my cousin (who got pregnant at 19 and was unwed) and she said her mother and sisters wouldn't give her a baby shower for the same reason. According to them, if you are unwed then the pregnancy shouldn't be celebrated. Is this a thing? Has anyone ever heard of this? Am I completely in the dark on this one?
FWIW- I would have totally given her a baby shower if I knew and was in the same state as her.