My husband and I decided not to announce our baby's name nor find out the sex. The sex was a personal decision we made, and not announcing the names because of the meaning behind them and wanting it to be special.
I told a friend of mine the names because I wanted an outside opinion of how they sounded together. She has slipped up once and called the baby the girl name we chose in front of my Mom. My Mom didn't hear it, so no big deal.
My husband and I told my family the two sets of initials but didn't tell them which sex they went with. My family has been having a good time guessing the names and not knowing if they're boy or girl.
My shower was Saturday and instead of a guest book, my friend decided to do an adlibs page. At the very bottom was the initials of the baby.
MKG in pink.
CLG in blue.
My heat dropped. I enjoyed my shower and asked my sisters and Mom who did the pages and they both said my friend.
I am mad. I feel like boundaries have been overstepped. I want to call her out but my Mom insists I just drop it.
I am sad. I feel like something very important to us was taken away and she overstepped her boundaries. I don't know how to handle this!