DH and I are on a relatively tight budget. Once LO comes along we will be on a tighter budget because I will be working PT so that we don't have to pay for daycare. I would like to start buying gear over the next 3-4 months we have left so that we aren't hit with last minute trips to plop down a few hundred dollars... But is it too soon to start buying stuff? What stuff should we start buying? I realize that the main things we'll need first are a carseat and a place for LO to sleep (we're using a PNP), but I was wondering if, in your experiences, you found that people at showers tended to give certain gifts and you really only needed to buy some things. Any tips are useful. Thanks so much!