So I know it is completely a personal decision, but I still can't decide. My DH and first boy are both circumcised, but I hated doing it to my first son. I don't think the anesthesia took affect, and they used this horrible metal clamp thing, and it was total agony for him and me. Plus, afterward the gauze they used over the incision dried onto it and it was agony again trying to get it off. It was just such a horrible experience. But my worry is that if I don't circumcise our second son he will feel awkward and different because his brother and dad are. I don't want that to be a problem. There are enough insecurities that come with being a middle child (we're planning on having at least one more after this), that I don't want to add to it. Any advise? Do any of you have older boys that are different from another member of their immediate family? Has there been questions or awkwardness because they are different?
Getting ready to be a mama of 2 little munchkins