I was on this site a lot during my pregnancy and sometimes found it helpful, however overall I have had a bad experience on these message boards and my advice to you all is to steer clear of them. The women are judgemental, hurtful, stuck up, and have the "I'm better than you" attitude. About 30% of them are neutral or nice. On another note all the abbreviations and lingo is beyond stupid, or maybe trying to learn it all is beyond stupid. Bottom line is, if you want support, prepared to be shut down by a lot of these women who have nothing better to do than talk negatively to other women on their posts. Everyone has a right to their opinion and FYI you will get a lot of them, and many unwanted ones.
So if you are excited about this, sorry to burst your bubble, but its a waste of time. Read a book, exercise, do something better than waste your time here.