My shower is in a few weeks & from what I originally gathered four of my friends are hosting it together. However, only two of them have been contacting me to get information regarding guests, registry, cake preferences, etc. Anytime the shower is mentioned around the others they always say "I don't think we really have it planned yet" or "Yeah, I think we're behind on planning"- something along those lines. So, to me, it just seems as though the first 2 friends are really the ones actively planning & the other 2 are just tagging along & are going to show up. My question would be, how do I find out if I do indeed have four hostesses or two? I want to get them nice gifts, but if only 2 of them are doing all the work then I want them to feel appreciated & not just lumped with those that really didn't help. Does this make any sense? If you have any suggestions at all it would be helpful. Thanks!