I get that this sounds bitchy but I am getting so annoyed by my fiance's mother. My sister is going to be the God Mother of our son and therefore she is planning my baby shower. She got married last month and I had planned her bridal shower, so she is excited to plan my baby shower for me.
However, FMIL has a completely different idea of what this baby shower will be and I cannot think of a kind way to ask her to back off. She keeps suggesting places that I would never consider having a shower at or places where I have been where the food was terrible (all places her friends own).
Honestly, I am being a little vain (and I know it) but my sister's bridal shower was at a breathtaking location, as was my cousin's recent baby shower. Unfortunately since I am having a winter baby, those locations are out due to cold weather. However, that doesn't mean I want my shower in the back banquet room of a bar (which is one of the locations she is pushing).
I'm just so frustrated. What would you do?