A very good friend of mine lost her daugter at 27 weeks on monday. I haven't gotten all of the details as they live out of state. All I know is that she went into pre-term labor, gave birth, and her daughter passed 2 hours later. Her husband, who is an ER doctor, was not allowed in the room as he was a doctor at that hospital and it is against hospital policy to allow family in the room during an emergency situation, especially when family is a medical professional. He did not get to meet their daughter before she passed. I feel so terrible for them and am trying to think of something/ anything I could do to reach out to them and let them know we care and are thinking of them. Any suggestions? I thought about getting them giftcards to various places I know they like to deliver food so they wouldn't have to worry about that. I will be sending flowers to the funeral service as I can't travel and making a donation to their favorite charity in their daughter's name. It just doesn't seem like enough.