In December, my little sister is having her bridal shower/bachlorette party. She really wants me to go out and party (I do want to go). However H works that weekend so I will be taking DD with me. My mom said she would just stay at the hotel and watch DD but sister wants her to go out also. She is pressuring me to leave DD with my IL's. (All of this is taking place about 2 hour drive from my house and IL live in a different town also would have to travel to watch DD)
I am EBF (so pumping enough for an entire day/night would be a PITA) and have never left DD overnight. I would MAYBE be ok with leaving her with H but he works nights so thats not an option. Our other sister has been leaving her son overnight since he was about 3 months so I'm wondering if maybe I am to extreme.
Has anyone else left thier little ones over night? How should I handle this?