Hello...just to introduce myself, my name is Jessie. DH and I tried for 3 yrs to have our first, a beautiful baby boy. He is 2 now, and we have been trying for a year to concieve again with no success. I have been diagnosed with PCOS with insulin resistance since 2005 and had our son in 2010 with a total of 2 yrs on Metformin and clomid (3 months on 1 month off... and so on) the first time around. This time, for the past 6 months I had been seeing a new ob/gyn, however after 6 months on clomid she has refused to see me anymore and is referring me to a fertility specialist. I am so confused and frustrated bc my previous ob/gyn was willing to work with us on the low tech end, however when I was pregnant I really didn't like how they handled certain situations especially since it lead to an emergency c-section a month early. I have made an appointment with a new ob/gyn for Dec 7th. I just am concerned about trying to go to a fertility specialist mostly bc of the expense. Been hearing that $20,000 dollars for ivf is cheap....... i know we can't afford that. Also the nearest one is an hour away. I don't know what to do anymore. Do I just give in and go to a fertility specialist or keep my appt with the new dr and see what she thinks?