Hi, this is my first post here, be kind. My BFF lives across country and won't be able to fly out for a baby shower. I don't really have any other close friends who would step up and throw me a shower. My mom is NOT the party kind of person and I would have to beg her to do it, and basically end up doing most of it myself anyway. How bad would it be to throw my own shower? Or should I not have one if no one else will throw me one?