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Nope. I refuse to BF or pump in front of anyone except DH and my mom. And my MIL saw me a few times. That's it. Flame away, but I just am not comfortable doing that in public.
Obviously I am not there yet, but I hope to BF.
That being said, I don't know if I will be comfortable in front of most male family members.
The only one that I know of for sure that I will be ok with is my dad (technically step-dad, but adopted) because he is super medical and totally not weird about it at all. He wouldn't even blink.
I have only openly bf'd in front DH, my mom, the LC, and the pediatrician.
I would only bf in front of anyone else while covered up.
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Only my dad. I will use a cover though if it's other male friends
We are using a shield and are working on our latch - so we aren't in the discreet or efficient category at all yet. Plus Nora HATES if I try feeding with a blanket covering her...
I have openly BF in front of my H and my mom. The first weekend she was here my dad and grandma came. I openly fed her in front of them and as we were really still figuring it out was completley hanging out. But the tv was always on and provided a good "distraction" so it wasn't awkward with my dad. The second weekend my 2 sistesrs and a BIL were in town. I fed in the living room with everyone present. My BIL usually excused himself or hit the kitchen when the talk of feeding began and then once we were situated would return to the living room and sit across the room.
This past weekend my MIL and FIL were here. Totally not comfortable with them seeing me (older generation, different ideas, and just not as close with them) so I excused myself to our bedroom for all feedings.
Otherwise I've BF out of the house twice. The first time was in a changing room at Kohls (super easy and private!). The second was in my car at the grocery store parking lot. Of course we were parked next to a guy eating lunch in his car. But my car was higher up and with the window tint I don't think he had a clue.
I bf in front of everyone. Step-dad, dad, bil, strangers, etc. I did ask my sister if she thought it was okay to bf in front of my 7 year old nephew. I don't use a cover or anything either but not much shows when you're bfing anyway.
It's not like I'm naked or sitting around topless.