My husbands cousin came to my shower about a month and a half ago, which I thought was very nice since neither she and him, nor she and I are close. She is having a sprinkle thrown for her by her sister (2nd child - 1st is just under 2). It is 1.5 weeks before my due date, just over an hour away. None of DH's family is going. They say she "never comes to anything" and were all surprised she came to mine. I feel like because she came to mine, I should go to hers. However, DH doesnt want me going alone (and frankly i dont think its a good idea either, as ive been contracting for a month and wouldnt be totally shocked if i went early). What do you think? Do i owe it to his cousin to go? Can i just send a small gift instead?