I've been asked a few times what brand I plan on using and get really weird looks when I say I don't plan on using them. People laugh and say you can tell I'm a FTM and that I will change my mind when the baby comes. My mom never used them for me and my sisters so I know you don't have to use them. Even if I change my mind and use them, I only plan to until 6 months or so. I don't want my 2 year old dependent on it. What are your opinions on them?