April 2013 Moms

~~ Confession Friday ~~

What's on your minds, women?
The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.
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  • I feel guilty as hell going about my business at work like everything is normal, knowing full well I don't plan to return to work after the baby is born.  It's way too early to have this conversation with my boss, but I'm still feeling the guilt.
    The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.
  • i'm really trying to figure out a way to get out of work today..  i'm really not wanting to be here so i'm going to think of an excuse to leave early. 
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  • I'm contemplating either chips and salsa, cinnabon toaster strudel, or Barney's Santas White Christmas Ice Cream for breakfast... hmmm...
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  • I enjoyed yesterday's UO's. 

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  • I slept almost all day yesterday and let DD1 eat a ton of snacks and watch TV from the time she got home from school (early dismissal, mind you) to the time she fell asleep at 10 pm last night.  She made a huge mess in the living room and kitchen, and I did the bare minimum to clean it before I went to sleep last night.  DD2 also spent most of her time in her pack'n'play, with the exception of diaper changes and feeding times.  For the record, I was that miserable.

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  • [pity party for one]

    I'm disappointed in how we're celebrating my birthday. DH always tells me "Don't worry, I've got some ideas!", so then I get excited and think outside of the box of all the things we could possibly do. Without fail, just a few days before he gets exasperated and says "You're too difficult to shop for. I don't know what you want."

    So tonight, we're going to grab a dinner and go shopping at the Mall of America . . . which should be perfect, but I always hope, since he says he has ideas, that he's going to come through with a great gift/activity. I'm just let down that for being married for 6 years and his stating he has ideas, he's coming empty handed.

    It doesn't help that I have to shoot an engagement session and a wedding tomorrow on my birthday. I then have 6 sessions on Sunday. This crappy weather has resulted in a lot of rescheduled sessions, otherwise I would have had the morning of my birthday and Sunday free. :(

    :: wine for my whine? anybody, please? :: 

    PnR's: I adore my DH and he is a great man, so I'm not trying to bash him. Just expressing my disappointment over my birthday. I don't expect him to read my mind. He got my hopes up, but unfortunately wasn't able to actualize. 

    Isaac Levi 4/26/09 : BFP#2 - MC 9w : Ezra John 6/26/11 : Miriam Joy 4/12/13 : Naomi Ann 9/2/14

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    I am the biitchiest pregnant woman ever and I pretty much don't care.  I deal with stupid people who have no idea how to follow simple directions all day long and it's gotten to the point that this is how I feel about everything related to my job:

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    I love this so much.

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    i'm really trying to figure out a way to get out of work today..  i'm really not wanting to be here so i'm going to think of an excuse to leave early. 

    This is me, every day, lately.

    I'm going in to put in an appearance, thne working from home.  All I have to do today is about 800 pages of proposal reading, and I can do that much better from my sofa, in yoga pants.

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    What's on your minds, women?

    I got pumpkin munchkins on the way to work and someone brought in doughnuts too. I'm going to eat both and I'm ok with it. I had a decent week in the gym and we're going camping/hiking this weekend.

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    I am the biitchiest pregnant woman ever and I pretty much don't care.  I deal with stupid people who have no idea how to follow simple directions all day long and it's gotten to the point that this is how I feel about everything related to my job:

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    This is exactly how I feel about work these days, too. 

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  • image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    [pity party for one]

    I'm disappointed in how we're celebrating my birthday. DH always tells me "Don't worry, I've got some ideas!", so then I get excited and think outside of the box of all the things we could possibly do. Without fail, just a few days before he gets exasperated and says "You're too difficult to shop for. I don't know what you want."

    So tonight, we're going to grab a dinner and go shopping at the Mall of America . . . which should be perfect, but I always hope, since he says he has ideas, that he's going to come through with a great gift/activity. I'm just let down that for being married for 6 years and his stating he has ideas, he's coming empty handed.

    It doesn't help that I have to shoot an engagement session and a wedding tomorrow on my birthday. I then have 6 sessions on Sunday. This crappy weather has resulted in a lot of rescheduled sessions, otherwise I would have had the morning of my birthday and Sunday free. :(

    :: wine for my whine? anybody, please? :: 

    PnR's: I adore my DH and he is a great man, so I'm not trying to bash him. Just expressing my disappointment over my birthday. I don't expect him to read my mind. He got my hopes up, but unfortunately wasn't able to actualize. 

    I'm sorry- I know how you feel. I love my DH and he really is a wonderful man, but birthdays and special occasions really aren't his forte. He "tries" but we are far apart on our ideas of things. Here's hoping your DH pulls through and knocks your socks off! Happy early birthday!

  • Here's my confession:

    I do not like my husband's family.  I never got to meet his mom, she died about two years before we met.  But his dad, stepmom, brothers, and stepsisters?  I don't like them.  I'm so glad they live in Northern Wisconsin.  But I resent using up DH's precious vacation time visiting them.

    I mean, I really, really dislike them. 

    One of my best friends ("B") offered to be our surrogate, and we're now expecting a baby in April 2013 after two cycles of natural IUI at the Jones Institute. For medical reasons, we are not biologically related to our unborn child. Yes, I guess that makes this a "planned adoption."

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    i'm really trying to figure out a way to get out of work today..&nbsp; i'm really not wanting to be here so i'm going to think of an excuse to leave early.&nbsp;

    This is me, every day, lately.


    I'm going in to put in an appearance, thne working from home.&nbsp; All I have to do today is about 800 pages of proposal reading, and I can do that much better from my sofa, in yoga pants.


    This is me for the last 3 months. I love my job, but I just have other things on my mind. It also doesn't help that I have very few deadlines. Makes procrastinating so much easier.

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    image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    [pity party for one]

    I'm sorry- I know how you feel. I love my DH and he really is a wonderful man, but birthdays and special occasions really aren't his forte. He "tries" but we are far apart on our ideas of things. Here's hoping your DH pulls through and knocks your socks off! Happy early birthday!

    I'm glad someone could understand where I was coming from! I'm definitely not being one of those girls who just sit all coy, basically demanding their DH figure out the perfect gift.

    Thank you!  

    Isaac Levi 4/26/09 : BFP#2 - MC 9w : Ezra John 6/26/11 : Miriam Joy 4/12/13 : Naomi Ann 9/2/14

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    Don't get me wrong....it's AWESOME what he has planned and I'm looking very forward to it, but I've known about it since the end of September so there is no actual birthday surprise.  It's just a date that has been planned forever.

    Can you tell one his friends/family members/your friends to tell him to step it up with something special when he gets home?

    Gah. That does sound fantastic, but I had to laugh at "It's just a date that has been planned forever." 100%

    You know what, I should have my BFF put a bug in his ear that I'll be home early from my wedding, since it's just a short 6 hour one, and that he could plan something for when I got home . . .  

    Isaac Levi 4/26/09 : BFP#2 - MC 9w : Ezra John 6/26/11 : Miriam Joy 4/12/13 : Naomi Ann 9/2/14

  • I got in a fight with a girl at work on Wednesday and we have not spoken since. There are only 3 people in my whole office so if two people aren't speaking it's pretty f-ing weird.

    My confession? I DON'T FLUCKING CARE!!! I hate her and I will never "apologize". The problem is we are both really big bishes and we butt heads a lot.
     
    Also, my breakfast from Starbucks was ruined this morning so to make myself feel better I have had 3 "mini breakfasts". 
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  • DH started talking "what if's" about this LO possibly being a girl. Honestly, even though it's a 50/50, it feels like the chips are stacked against us after two [awesome] boys, so it's not something we even talk about.

    Last night he said "and if this one [patting my belly] is a little missus . . . " and went one to talk about future family vacations. I've never ever heard DH say "missus" before in my life, but it made my heart stop in the sweetest, most endearing way possible.

    I really hope we get a daughter.  

    Isaac Levi 4/26/09 : BFP#2 - MC 9w : Ezra John 6/26/11 : Miriam Joy 4/12/13 : Naomi Ann 9/2/14

  • image Mrs.Leah.Maria:
    image lovelyday39:
    image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    [pity party for one]

    I'm sorry- I know how you feel. I love my DH and he really is a wonderful man, but birthdays and special occasions really aren't his forte. He "tries" but we are far apart on our ideas of things. Here's hoping your DH pulls through and knocks your socks off! Happy early birthday!

    I'm glad someone could understand where I was coming from! I'm definitely not being one of those girls who just sit all coy, basically demanding their DH figure out the perfect gift.

    Thank you!  

    FI and I haven't been together that long, but he is the same way. I am always getting him little things here and there (I like writing notes and actually mailing cards in the mail, lol), and he is always amazed at the gifts I've gotten him (birthday, christmas, our 1 year anniversary, etc.) and I know he wants to go all-out to give me something amazing, but his idea of amazing and my idea of amazing just haven't met yet, lol. And I don't want to straight up tell him what I want otherwise where's the surprise, I could just go and get it myself.

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  • image lovelyday39:
    image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    [pity party for one]


    I'm disappointed in how we're celebrating my birthday. DH always tells me "Don't worry, I've got some ideas!", so then I get excited and think outside of the box of all the things we could possibly do. Without fail, just a few days before he gets&nbsp;exasperated&nbsp;and says "You're too difficult to shop for. I don't know what you want."


    So tonight, we're going to grab a dinner and go shopping at the Mall of America . . . which should be perfect, but I always hope, since he says he has ideas, that he's going to come through with a great gift/activity. I'm just let down that for being married for 6 years and his stating he has ideas, he's coming empty handed.

    It doesn't help that I have to shoot an engagement session and&nbsp;a wedding tomorrow on my birthday. I then have 6 sessions on Sunday. This crappy weather has resulted in a lot of rescheduled sessions, otherwise I would have had the morning of my birthday and Sunday free. :(


    :: wine for my whine? anybody, please? ::&nbsp;


    PnR's: I adore my DH and he is a great man, so I'm not trying to bash him. Just expressing my disappointment over my birthday. I don't expect him to read my mind. He got my hopes up, but unfortunately wasn't able to actualize.&nbsp;



    I'm sorry- I know how you feel. I love my DH and he really is a wonderful man, but birthdays and special occasions really aren't his forte. He "tries" but we are far apart on our ideas of things. Here's hoping your DH pulls through and knocks your socks off! Happy early birthday!


    MH is the same way. I feel bad being disappointed and I try to hide it, but some times I just can't. I know he tries though. My favorite was when he put sticky notes with sweet things on them all over the inside of my car one random day.

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  • image mypalbabs:
    I feel guilty as hell going about my business at work like everything is normal, knowing full well I don't plan to return to work after the baby is born.  It's way too early to have this conversation with my boss, but I'm still feeling the guilt.

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    I enjoyed yesterday's UO's. 

    I confess that I too, enjoyed them. But I bump at night, and people had already left by the time I had anything to say. 

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  • image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    DH started talking "what if's" about this LO possibly being a girl. Honestly, even though it's a 50/50, it feels like the chips are stacked against us after two [awesome] boys, so it's not something we even talk about.

    Last night he said "and if this one [patting my belly] is a little missus . . . " and went one to talk about future family vacations. I've never ever heard DH say "missus" before in my life, but it made my heart stop in the sweetest, most endearing way possible.

    I really hope we get a daughter.  

    That is too cute :) FI REALLY wants a boy, but about two weeks ago, with both our girls sleeping in the other room, we were talking about how my daughter is going to be a really good big sister (she's so good with his daughter), and he slipped and said "She'll have the girls following her around." and I was like girlS, plural?? He was surprised he said it but I reminded him that it very well could be a girl, so it's good to be prepared :)

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  • Ds is refusing to eat anything i give him lately. So this morning, he ate an oreo for breakfast. I'm just glad he ate something.
  • I kind of resent that my sister and her family never come to visit us and always make us take the 6 hour drive. They've only been here twice in 3 years. Once when I was recovering from surgery and once for our wedding. If it wasn't for my niece and nephew we wouldn't go there nearly as often as we do.

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  • I eat 2 breakfasts Embarrassed  I'll eat a bowl of oatmeal at home, and then once I get off the bus at work I run into the Starbucks and get a small coffee and one of their fruit & cheese boxes (usually I get a cheese danish though).  The last two days I've been really bad and have gotten McDonalds breakfast sandwiches (and yes, that is plural, I've gotten the meal and then an extra sandwich!)  I need to stop!!
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     MH is the same way. I feel bad being disappointed and I try to hide it, but some times I just can't. I know he tries though. My favorite was when he put sticky notes with sweet things on them all over the inside of my car one random day.

    At least we know they're trying! The post it note story is adorable! 

    Isaac Levi 4/26/09 : BFP#2 - MC 9w : Ezra John 6/26/11 : Miriam Joy 4/12/13 : Naomi Ann 9/2/14

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    I enjoyed yesterday's UO's. 

     OMG yes, me too!!

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  • I won't be surprised if we get several "they told us boy/girl, but it's not!" posts in about 4 weeks when people start getting their a/s scans.
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  • I only have 3ish more weeks of work left (I'm a nanny) and I realized this week that I don't think I'll miss it.. like, at all.   I feel kinda bad. 
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  • image Mrs.Leah.Maria:

    Last night he said "and if this one [patting my belly] is a little missus . . . " and went one to talk about future family vacations. I've never ever heard DH say "missus" before in my life, but it made my heart stop in the sweetest, most endearing way possible.

    I really hope we get a daughter.  

    Awwww that is so sweet <3

    I hope you get your girl too. I know the odds are in favor of another boy (70% according to my u/s tech), but I'm pretty sure the baby doesn't care about odds :)

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