Baby Caleb Benjamin was born at 12:35 am on Wednesday and he is awesome! One thing I did not expect though was this TERRIBLE recovery! Everyone always talks about how hard a C section recovery was but I had a vaginal birth and this is no joke! I was not expecting so much post partum pain!. I did have a second degree tear and it is rough to deal with. This is also a TMI alert but I also had no idea about how intense the pain in my bum would be! I guess I never thought about how pushing that hard doesnt just affect the girl parts! Good luck to eveyone else who is still waiting, hopefully you wont have it as bad!