I find all of you to be very mature and you think of the other party whether it's in regards to BM or whoever so I figured this would be a good place to ask. When it comes to your sk do they call you "mom" or "dad"? Would you ever ask them to or is that not your place and is fine with them calling you by name? Do you feel it is disrespectful to the birth parent have have sk call you "mom" or "dad"?
Pedis to add: i am BM and my FHA and I have been together since LO was 18 mos old. LO has never called FH "dad" and we've never considered it even though he has been the main standing father figure since his birth dad walked out at a yr old. I was just curious to see how other SP felt on this issue