I think I am realistic in my expectations for our 4 month old daughters sleep. I am ok that we haven't gotten to STTN. I feed her and we relax together between 7 - 8, she is in her crib asleep at 8. Then most nights we get a good for us stretch of sleep maybe 5ish hours. That puts me at 1 am, she wakes up and I nurse her again and back to sleep she goes. What I was curious about is what does the rest of the night look like for other people who's LO aren't STTN. DD is then up every 90 minutes to an 2hour after that like at 2 am, 3am and 4am. Then I start my day at 5am and it is seriously exhausting me.