So...I dont think that I will be getting a shower for baby #2. My closest friends live across the U.S. now, and shower#1 was givin by SIL who is now divorced from the family. My MIL or other SIL may offer, but is it possible to politely decline? I cringe at the idea of either of them throwing a party (believe me it would be sooo stressful- they are both very ...TENSE- I dont know how else to describe)
So what I was thinking... I would like to have a little celebration- maybe like a meet-the-baby or something- where I can invite friends/coworkers/family. I do love planning partys and jump at every reason to. Something simple/tasteful (no gifts) ... would it be tacky for me to organize it? Does it seem desperate?? Aaag wish I had more friends here I would just help them plan mine!