My mom plans on throwing a shower for me (for family and family friends etc., that's how they do it, after baby has arrived) and she wants to throw it on Thanksgiving weekend (in canada thanksgiving is in oct) and I am due Sept 6 and will be induced on or before that depending on what's happening. Anyway, its a 2 hour drive away..I don't know if I will be a vaginal delivery or c section because who knows at this point, anything can happen, so I don't know how I will be recovery wise to go that far and stay over in their house for the weekend.
Should I at least be a little more comfortable by then? My mom doesn't understand excuses etc. and if I said I didnt' feel comfortable to go that far that early, she would be like "please you are so dramatic, you are fine, why are you such a diva etc." She doesn't get that not everyone is a work horse like her at all times. My mom hosted guests and stuff the minute she was home with her babies and cooking/making dessert for them etc. So I know she will think I'm being a wuss or something.
When she came over with my dad to go to dinner when I was 37 weeks she came in and was like how are you feeling and I said "tired" and she was like "STILL????" um I am still pregnant last time i checked and in the last few weeks..what the hell..
Re: Will I be ok for a baby shower about 6 weeks after delivery?
My family/friends will also be hosting my baby showers after the birth of the baby. Like you said, that is when it is normal around here to do it. I am due 9/18 and my one friend is planning one for 10/25. I don't have to travel but I still think that it will be ok. It might make for a long day though.
Everyone recovers differently. I had a section with my first and was back exercising by 6 weeks. 2nd I had a 3 degree tear and started back at pilates 2 weeks postpartum. Baby 3 was a breeze and we have been walking twice a day the last two days (he is 5 days old).
I would imagine that no matter what kind of birth you have you will be just fine for a (hopefully) non-taxing event like a shower 6 weeks after delivey being that many woman have to go back to work at that point. I had a very challenging recovery with DS1 and was fine for social events at that point.
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I am the matron of honor in a wedding at 7 weeks pp. I think I will feel pretty good.
With ds, I had an episiotomy and a c-section and was running by 8 weeks pp.
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