So I have this friend who was TTC for about two years. She would always talk with me about how she knew exactly what the nursery would look like, and what names she'd use, and even sent me links to the things she would register for (and she even registered for them). I felt sorry for her because conceiving was difficult and she went through clomid and such to help. And, yeah, I thought she was a little bit crazy for doing all this stuff with no baby on the way, but at least she was optimistic.
Then she gets her BFN -- so excited for her! I live out of state from her, but sent her a gift when her shower came around (something from her pre-registry) and it was all fun chatting for awhile.
And then she started complaining... about EVERYthing! "Oh, I feel like crap!" "I can't eat anything!" "I can't stop eating everything!" "Now I'm getting fat!" "I just want this baby out already!" She's got another month and a half to go, but she's been complaining about having the baby "out" for at least two months now. I get it, I've been there, it's uncomfortable. But in my head, I'm thinking, "This is what you wanted! Why not be happy for getting what you wanted?"
Is it just me? Am I the crazy one here? I just don't get it...
Plus, when I told her about my mc, she was like "well, at least you get pregnant easily" ...thanks.