I was wondering what the temperature of this board is. I'm 28 and I've never tried to get pregnant. I was in high school when I was told I have PCOS. The doctor told me that if I ever wanted to conceive I would have to go through lots of expensive fertility treatments that may not work anyway- and that conceiving naturally was nearly impossible. And if by some luck I did conceive I would be at a very high risk for miscarriage.
For over a decade now I've just kind of tried not to think about it. I've just lived assuming I would never have kids, and figured that was for the best. My fiance is divorced and never had children in his first marriage, and he says he'd prefer to not have children, so I know my condition doesn't bother him. I still feel conflicted sometimes about it, but overall I just try to accept that motherhood isn't in my future.
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Wow, you have a lot going on.
I would recommend you get a 2nd opinion on being infertile. There are alot of women that have PCOS. It isn't a death sentence as far as motherhood. They would start you & hubs out with some basic testing to make sure that's the only issue. Sometimes you can get your tests done at your OB's. If that is the only issue, they would probably start you off with some meds & monitoring. The meds are pretty inexpensive now. Another side note though ~ women with PCOS have conceived on their own too.
If this is something you feel strongly about, probably want to discuss it with future mr. before the big day.
Best wishes to you
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I wouldn't give up hope because you have PCOS.
I'm 34 with PCOS and started working with a fertility doctor. The doctor found out through blood work that I have a hypothryroidism. He started me on the medication for it and 2 weeks later I got pregnant. I'm on metformin for my insulin too. Once all my hormones were in line, I was able concieve quickly without fertility treatment.
Perhaps you could ask your OBGYN to do some blood work of all your hormones. Good Luck!
wtf.
1. This is a PUBLIC forum
2. The fertiles are commenting on THIS thread to inform the OP that PCOS is NOT a pregnancy death sentence, that she still has a chance to get pregnant and have a child if she so chooses.
I have pcos and had no problem getting pregnant. I was seeing a fertility specialist and everything about 8 months before ttc. He put me on birth control and metformin, and I lost about 25 pounds (I'm still very overweight though) so I definitely prepared my body for it. But when it was go time, I got pregnant on the third month of trying, which might have even been sooner if my husband didn't have to travel for work so much. Also I specifically asked the fertility specialist if when I did become pregnant the risk goes up due to pcos and he said no; the only thing to put me at a higher risk was my weight.
most women with pcos can conceive somehow. A lot of them use Clomid to do it, which really isn't that expensive, and a lot of insurance plans will cover it anyway.
tha's kind of heartbreaking the doctor who told you that was so pessimistic about it. If having a baby is something you truly want, don't give up on your dream.
Definitely get a second opinion. I was diagnosed with PCOS last year and I am hopeful to one day have a baby.
Good Luck!