Hello all. I'm afraid this is going to get long. I've been having some daycare issues and it's time to get your input. We had a meeting with the director regarding our issues up until now, which were employee related. I understand that daycares have high turnover rates, but I also don't like the way they handled it (2 teachers just disappeared with no letter to us as to what happened). They moved our head teacher into a new room after she had only been there for 4 months. But we had to deal with it, fine. We considered pulling him but didn't. In all of this though, I have come to really, really dislike the Director. So the day after our meeting, LO threw up at school. We get a phone call saying we have to come get him. When SO goes to get him, Director says he can't come in tomorrow either. I was livid, and asked questions. He had no fever and seemed completely fine to SO. Come to find out they gave him Puffs. If this kid has a puree that's too thick he pukes. So there's your reason for puking, he was fine and I took him in the next day. I see Director when dropping him off that morning and said "He is fine, really, they gave him Puffs blah blah" she is just condescending and nodding at me and smiling. Doesn't say I'm glad he's ok, nothing.
Cut to today. LO gets bit. I know, I know, this happens. But first of all, I get a message saying "We were waiting to see if it left a mark to call you" WTF?!! So, you don't call unless it leaves a mark? Second, SO went to see LO at lunch to see it, Director was in.the.room and said nothing to him about it. Last, the kid that bit him (was described to SO as "knawed on" my LO and he now has a bruise) has had several incidents of the biting. I have seen some posts on here in the past and I'm guessing what I should do is meet with the awful Director (which I sooo dread) and ask her their protocol on biting? I don't know what she isn't "allowed" to tell me due to privacy, as in how many times this kid has bit other kids...should she be able to tell me that? I know she can't tell me who and frankly I don't want to know. ugh I just really have zero faith in this Director and I feel like she is going to just tell me what I want to hear. I am sick to my stomach and just don't know what to do. Sorry so long :(