Sorry if this is a common issue. This is my 1st time on this board. Dh and I have a beautiful dd who is 13m. I would like to ttc asap but dh is looking to wait a year. He'd be fine w longer but he's saying a year to appease me. He thinks it'll be easier if she is older by the time a new baby comes. I think it's going to be difficult getting used to 2 no matter when we do it! I just turned 34 and I am concerned about the risks that come along w getting older. We talked for a while and only came up w the idea that we'll revisit the topic in a couple months. Should I just be more patient?