I used to frequent this board but haven't been here for a long time. I have a very good friend who found out yesterday morning at her 32 week appointment that her baby boy's heart was no longer beating. I don't know anymore details than that because she texted the information - she's not ready to talk. My loss was early - 10 weeks - and only about 5 people knew about it. I know what helped me afterwards and what didn't help... but her situation is so drastically different that I don't know what to do for her.
Anyone with late losses, can you tell me what helped you? What things did friends do that were not helpful? How do I talk to her? Do I wait for her to come to me? Do I text her daily just to let her know I am thinking about her - or is that too much? I feel helpless. She lives about 3 hours from me so I can't go over and help with her older son... I can't take a homecooked meal. I am thinking of having a meal delivered to start. But any suggestions would be wonderful. TIA