DHL wants to try IVF now... After 1 miscarriage, an ectopic, and another miscarriage.... I'm scared. Scared to be disappointed and scared that I will feel like less of a woman if something goes wrong. We have also had a rough patch for those of you that know what that means.... Has anyone had the same experience with advice to give on what the smartest options are? Wether it be adoption or actually trying IVF?