or just doesn't care about them?
I know that EVERYONE will say their kid doesn't listen at this age, but my DS is taking it to the extreme....I ask him once, he completely ignores me, doesnt even look my way. I ask him again, same thing. I count down from 3 to 1, he finally looks at me but doesn't make a move until after I say 1. This is everything from quit standing on the couch, to get your shoes, to sit at the table, I mean everything. I cant even tell you how many times I count per day...
Nothing upsets him except for getting sent to his room. I even cancelled pool time today because he ignored me when I told him not to go upstairs while I was pumping...he ran up there, climbed into the babys crib, and woke her up before I could stop him. After I changed him out of his swim clothes, I sent him up to his room where he cried until I let him out, but once he was out, he was fine...asked to go swimming a few times, I told him no (and why) and he didn't even seem upset.
Tonight he wont stay in his bed. I told him if he didn't, we wouldn't play his favorite game in the morning. I said, are you going to stay in bed? He said no. He just doesn't care. It has to be something instant, if its in the future forget it.
Taking toys away doesnt work, he doesnt even like his toys that much, lol. Nothing motivates this kid.
It was just a worse day than usual. I neeeeed a drink.