Hi, My name is Meahgan(30) and I am not over 35, but my husband is (46).
We have an almost 7 month old and he has 2 children from a previous marriage (12yo girl and 14 yo boy)
My H is a physically able man, but I notice that he tends to use the phrase "I'm too old for that"
Also, SD asked for H to take her to the local field so that she could fly her kite. He told her no because he hates flying kites.
I had issues with this, but SD wanted her dad to take her, not me.
Later on I asked him why he said no.
I don't know if this is an age thing or a personality thing.
DH also comes from a family where his father was abusive and not involved in good ways, then pretty much abandoned the family.
Any suggestions or advice would be helpful.