I want your opions on the relationship my in laws have with BM. She calls them all the times. When she disagrees with DH she calls his mom or grandmother and they take her side, on everything. They bad mouth DH with her, we know because she always says "well your mother ever said this or that". And, the last time they had a disagreement DH's mother even texted me to "talk some sense" into him. Am I wrong to think it is completely out of line for DHs own family to never back him on anything he does?