Hi everyone. I need some non biased advice here. My aunt in MI feels the need to tell me or my mom everything we talk that I should want triplet boys (mind you this is my first pregnancy). She fails to realize that I am 2000 miles away from any friends or family and when I or my mom tell her absolutely not - I wouldn't wish that on anyone for their first with no one around to help me - she continues to bring it up. She says that having three children is the only acceptable size for a family and I should have as many grandchildren for my mom as possible. It's hard enough that I can't get to share this with friends and family as it is and it really hurts my feelings that she seems to think those kind or remarks are funny. What do I do here? I try to be as nice about it as I can but it just doesn't stop.
To my little one - may God hold you in his arms until we are able to hold you in ours.