I need a sanity check.
DS turned 1 on Friday. He self-feeds finger foods just fine. He will eat breads, cheese, fruits, and some veggies as finger foods, but he doesn't like meats on their own and some veggies are a no-go so far. He doesn't get how to use a spoon to feed himself yet. We send finger food for the morning snack at daycare and some finger food to eat after his yogurt in the afternoon. He gets purees at lunch with milk. Dinner is sometimes puree with meat in it, sometimes just table food, and sometimes a mix depending on what we're eating.
Today, daycare told DH that we need to start sending in only finger food because "when he moves to the next room, they won't feed him at all." They transition rooms usually around their birthdays. DS was moved early, at 10 months, because he was walking early.
Did you ditch purees at 1? Did you still spoon-feed things like yogurt after you stopped with other pureed foods? When did your LO figure out how to use a spoon?