LO is 3 months old and H is talking about having another, I think because he wants a boy. He says it in a joking way but I think he is serious. I'm still feeling like there's *no way* I want to have another but everyone keeps telling me to wait a year and I will change my mind. My pregnancy was tough on me - morning sickness, insomnia and lots of pains in the last month or two (to the point where walking was painful). And the first 3 months have been hell on me, mostly due to problems with breastfeeding, severe lack of sleep and my body being generally run down from the pregnancy and birth. I realize lots of other moms have had the same issues, or worse, but I just wasn't coping well.
LO is sleeping longer stretches now so it's not as bad, but I still can't imagine wanting to do this again. I'm feeling a bit old and run down to go through all this again, and of course we will have a toddler to contend with too. I really don't think I'm going to change my mind. Did anyone else feel this way a few months after your first but then change your mind later?