Pregnant after a Loss


My 3 month past away 1 month ago there is not a day i don't think about him. he was the most precious little angel ever. We'll Monday i decicded to take a pregnancy test and it came out positive I don't know how to feel my husband starting crying, because we don't know how to feel i still haven't and never going to get over my son that's my son. But I feel like i betrayed him, because i got pregnant to soon and i wasn't ready for it. But me and the Hubby are learning every day to learn to live with it. We have no choice. I just miss my baby so much I pray and i am going to continue to pray.;


  • I don't think anyone ever gets over thier loss but hopefully time will ease a bit of your pain. I am so sorry for your loss and that you didn't have time to properly grieve before this BFP, but it is a miracle so congrats and I wish you a long and happy 9 months!

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    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how overwhelmed you are right now. You might also find some comfort on the "Loss" board. I wish you the absolute best for this pregnancy. Congratulations and welcome.





    BFP #4: 8/11/11. EDD: 4/19/12. Beta #1: 33 on 8/12. Beta #2: 104 on 8/14. Beta #3: 1320 on 8/20. Beta#4: 12291 on 8/27. Heartbeat! Beta #5: 38857 on 9/3. Beta #6: 87069 on 9/10.
    BFP #3: 4/4/11. EDD: 12/14/11. Beta #1: 39 on 4/5. Beta #2: 108 on 4/7. Beta #3: 401 on 4/11. Beta #4: 12865 on 4/22. D&C #1 5/16. D&C #2 6/3. Karyotype showed tetraploidy.

    BFP #2: 3/4/11. EDD: 11/13/11. Beta #1: 9 on 3/7. Beta #2: 0 on 3/9. Chemical Pregnancy 3/9.

    BFP #1: 10/16/10 after 10 months TTC. EDD: 6/17/11. Blighted Ovum 11/12. D&E 12/6.

  • Congratulations on your new beginning. =) I agree with the previous posters. I don't think we'll ever get over it. My loss was at 19wks 1day in September and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her.  It's ok to miss him and think of him and be sad and it's ok to move on. I don't think it means that you're betraying him, although, I can see how that feels that way. I think we all do the best we can do given the difficult cirmcumstance and I think it's a given that we all love our babies.


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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you went through. But congratulations on your new pregnancy. I pray that it will go smoothly and you will have a happy and healthy 9 months!
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  • Nope, you never "get over" it you just learn to live with it. You will love this new baby too, your heart will make room.

    Please come visit us on the Loss board, the ladies there are GREAT. There are several women who have lost infants and toddlers as well.

    Big hugs to you and sending you strength!!

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