So, I've been best friends with this girl since we were like 7. She recently started dating a guy who has herpes, and has been sexually active with him. I have tried to keep my thoughts to myself thus far, but I'm gonna have to talk to her about it soon. She is going to be a part of my baby's life, but I feel really uncomfortable with her having close contact with the baby, like giving kisses. She is really outspoken which is kind of why I love her, but I feel like that outspokenness will be a problem when it comes time to have "the talk." Can you ladies offer any advice on how to bring upy concerns and what I might say to make her feel more comfortable? I don't want her to be upset with my "no kisses" decision, but at the same time I'm only doing what I feel is best for my baby and, let's be honest, you knew the risk when you started sleeping with him! Ugh. Help.