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How come no one told me! Re: The Help (SPOILER)
Nikki1219
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I watched The Help for the first time today while DH was at school. Good movie.
SPOILER ALERT!
How come no one mentioned in all the times they mentioned it was an awesome movie about the heart wrenching miscarriage scene?! I immediately started bawling like a baby and completely lost it. Watching her plant her 3rd rose bush was too much. I cried and cried. I was a complete mess.
It's amazing how even a Hollywood reenactment of something like that sends me into a complete breakdown.
BFP 6/20/10 1st M/C- 7/3/10~ 6 w 1 d
BFP 9/13/10- Chemical Pregnancy discovered 9/16/10
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Re: How come no one told me! Re: The Help (SPOILER)
That is a good underlying message. It broke my heart when she said she hadn't told her husband. I don't know how I would have gotten through my mc's without DH.
BFP 9/13/10- Chemical Pregnancy discovered 9/16/10
BFP 2/23/11 EDD 2nd M/C 3/20/10~ 7 w 6 d
BFP 9/17/11- Twins! Alice Nichole 5/15/12 Colette Parker 5/15/12
I may have sobbed and blubbered through the first 10 minutes of Up.
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BFP #3 12/7/2011, EDD 8/15/2012, Harper Lorelai born 8/09/12
I have not watched that movie yet because I knew it had a m/c in it. After the Oscars I thought about watching it- but don't think I am ready.
Not to ruin this movie either but I had seen UP a few yrs ago, and knew what happened- I watched it a few months ago and just BALLED. I was crying so bad my mom thought something major had happened (it was right after we told my parents I was pg again- and of course she thought the worst!)
I still do whenever I see it
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Yes, and they also marked the graves for the babies. She buried the baby in a box underneath, and then planted a rose bush above. It's heartwrenching.
I still haven't watched the end of the movie. I was home alone and decided to watch "The Help", because I heard so many good things about it and the m/c-scene totally blind sided me. It reminded me too much of my own and I just stopped watching the movie right there.
DH's Cousin's and aunts want to do a movie night with all the girls of the family and of course, they picked out "The Help". I figure I'm going to have to disappear for a few minutes when this scene comes up.