TTC After a Loss

***For the March EDD Ladies***

So it begins...I know it is a hard month for us all.  This will be my first time passing by my EDD of March 25.  I know some of you ladies have been through this before and some of you are new to it, like me.  In any case, I just want you all to know that you are on my heart and in my prayers this month.  I just wanted to put that out there and let you all know that I am thinking of you as the days go by.  Huge ((hugs)) to everyone, and sorry for the sappy post, but I really do mean it!

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Re: ***For the March EDD Ladies***

  • Thinking of all the March ladies. ((hugs))
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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  • Thank you, and ((big hugs)) back. 
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  • Thanks, I hope it goes by fast for you. I do have some experience unfortunately in that I passed my Feb. EDD date which surprised me in not being bad. I am worried about this March date though as I was further along and I have a friend due in March 10 days before my EDD.
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  • imagehungryhippo:
    Thinking of all the March ladies. ((hugs))

     

    This.  Love you ladies! 

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    BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD:  5/9/2012 **  Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks

    BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD:  12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia   12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!  


  • Thank you for the kind words everyone!

    I woke up this morning and checked my phone and it said March 1st....I immediately thought about how I shouldn't be so comfortable snuggling with my husband and I should have a huge stomach right now :(

    I just had an EDD last month and did surprisingly well but I feel like this one is going to be so much harder. I can't stop thinking about what should have been.

    (((Hugs))) to all the March mommies, we will get through this.

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    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
  • {{hugs}}

     

    This will be my first EDD milestone as well.  I understand the anticipation is supposed to be worse than the actual day but it all just kinda sucks.  

    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • I am glad to know that I don't have to go through this month alone. I wish we could just skip this month and go right to April. My EDD was the 17th. I didn't realize how hard it would be...but I find that the closer we got to March, the higher my anxiety level rose. I just can't stop thinking about how far along I should be, how we should have our nursery completed, and how my dh and I should be holding our twins in our arms in a couple weeks. Big HUGS to you all, and I will be thinking about all of you.
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  • (((hugs)))) I feel like I've been through so many of these but they still sting. I should be celebrating a 1st birthday.

    I hope the days leading up and the actual day aren't too hard on anyone.


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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

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  • Yes, I still have 24 days to go, but I am dreading it.  This is decidedly unpleasant.  I am glad we are all here to get through it together, though.  I can't imagine being alone in this process.
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  • imagepangnl79:

    Thank you for the kind words everyone!

    I woke up this morning and checked my phone and it said March 1st....I immediately thought about how I shouldn't be so comfortable snuggling with my husband and I should have a huge stomach right now :(

    I just had an EDD last month and did surprisingly well but I feel like this one is going to be so much harder. I can't stop thinking about what should have been.

    (((Hugs))) to all the March mommies, we will get through this.

    I feel like this every time I travel.  Though I am thankful that I can get around and do what I want, it still stings because I would rather be uncomfortable and a momma-to-be still.  It really is difficult to avoid those kind of thoughts.  ((hugs)) to you.

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