DS is not ready for PT, he has his own potty, has sat on it and even peed a few times (which we have praised, celebrated and rewarded) but he's just not really interested.
DD on the other hand is doing great. We are using rewards, mostly stickers, M&M's and we bought princess pullups and panties which are a reward for her to put on. The trouble is that DS wants whatever she has. He throws a fit when she gets a sticker or M&M and he doesn't and tears off all his clothes so he can have a princess pull up too when she gets one on. I've tried to use it as a "bribe" and told him he can have one too if he goes on the potty, but he kicks it away, runs, tantrums. I want to create a positive PT experience, but he's making it tough.
How would you handle this? Do I continue to ignore the fits and praise DD...I feel bad, like I'm playing favorites and I feel like this can't be good for his self-esteem, but I don't want to reward him for nothing. I've tried distracting him with something else fun (that isn't currently being used as a PT reward) but that doesn't really work all the time.