I am having a bit of a dillema deciding on the proper etiquette for handling a check that we received for our baby shower that wasn't signed. Which means we cannot cash it. I'm not too worried about the money, but I don't want this person to be waiting for this check to clear and it doesn't. The person is my mother's aunt through marriage, I am not close to her at all. In fact she doesn't even know who I am and introduces herself to me everytime we meet, even though I know who she is. I don't feel right calling her since she doesn't know who I am, and I do not have her phone number either. My mom offered to call, but now I don't know. I don't know if I should send the thank you with the check inside and let her know, or do I have my mom call her? Or not worry about it all together. Like I said, its not about the money at all. So oh wise bumpies, what would you do?
DX PCOS in 2000 TTC since April 2010 DX Hypothyroidism 6/2010 Referred to RE 9/2010.
BFP in June 2011, DD born in 2012
Joined the baby train again 8/2013. First month, out due to re-diganosis of Hashimotos.
Sept 2013, 2.5 letrozole and trigger, low progestrone and using supplements = BFN.
Oct 2013 2.5 Letrozole, trigger, and IUI = low progestrone (8.9, using supplements) and BFP 11/6 Beta 26.9, Beta 2 @ 30, Beta 3 @ 25.3, Beta 4 @ 25.2 CP 5w1d
Nov 2013: ? waiting on AF