My friend asked me to come over tomorrow for dinner and a movie but her son was diagnosed with rsv 10 days ago. Her son is 4 months and my daughter is 3 months. I don't think it's a good idea even though I know that it's spread from children sneezing on each other and touching surfaces that have the infected snot saliva etc. I am a major germaphobe so my question is how would you politely say no without making her feel like her son is diseased? I feel bad but not enough to risk my daughter getting sick our dr has had 10-15 cases a day this month!!