Mine...my shower is way too big. 90 were invited. We have HUGE families...both parents have 7 siblings...I have four siblings...hubby has seven...plus our cousins.... but 33 of them live out of state. We thought for sure they would not come since most would have to fly in. Not one of them said no. Only ten people total said no. When does that happen? Don't get me wrong. It is going to be amazing to have my entire family in one place. The only other time that happens is at weddings. But 80 people at a shower...that's really really big!