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We were doing it probably once a week to week and a half, until Christmas (32 weeks-ish) when I got a HORRIBLE hemorrhoid that just completely put an end to my sex drive. I had been wanting to do it more before then, but DH was really busy with school and then the holidays kind of got in the way. We've done it once or twice since then, and only because he seemed really into it. I hope he doesn't approach me for it again before baby comes. I almost never turn him down. I have and will if I really feel like it, but he's not a very touchy-feely person, so I almost feel like I'm wasting a chance to get close to him if I don't go along with it.
I think he's gotten the hint though.
Jillibean85:Zero sex drive, zero sexy time. =(
***Nestie Bestie w/ TheDeatons***
I have the opposite! My drive is through the roof! Unfortunately DH only puts out every other day at the most. ;P
Once the baby was born last time though, I wasn't very interested. I'm figuring with 2u2 my drive will plummet this time too.
anne14marie:usually 1-2 times a week. sometimes more, sometimes less. we seem to be on opposite schedules. tbh, my drive was zero in the first tri and i had horrible ms and felt like crap all day! and was exhausted at night which annoyed my hubby but i was like, imagine having a hang over where you can't decide if you're going to puke or not (minus the headache) or that you have the flu and might puke at any second...that's what it feels like, ugh i just did not want to be touched or cuddled or anything, lol! after the nauseousness passed we got back to the usual but whenever i'm "in the mood" i try to make use of it, lol.
jennylove1084:We haven't done it since 20ish weeks. His choice, not mine. It grosses him out.
This. He says he's read the baby/what's going on with your body books, and no thanks. He's had less drive than I have, TBH. So not since the beginning of 2nd tri, and we won't again till after I'm given the okay after birth.
1-2 times a week
We still do it about once a week. I could go for a little bit more, but Im soooo tired...