Hi ladies,
At my last appointment, my Dr said I'd have a growth u/s the end of this month, and based on those results, we'd discuss birth options, including c-section (baby has been huge the whole pregnancy). I'm not opposed to a c-section, nor am I sold on a particular type of birth experience as long as LO is safe, but I am concerned about recovery time and restrictions. I'm an active person and pretty Type A, so I'm already a bit concerned about the normal postpartum restrictions.
For those who have had c-sections, how are the PP restrictions different than for a vaginal birth? One concern is that our house is 2 storys, and the nursery is upstairs while our room is downstairs (LO will be in a PnP for awhile at least). I heard somewhere that you can't even go upstairs after a c-section. Is this true or an exaggeration?
Any info you all have would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
Re: Restrictions after c-section?
C-Sections are hard on the body. I am not going to lie. You are cut open and its major surgery and you have to be careful afterward.
I was in pain afterward and they gave me pain meds. I don't have a 2 story house but I can see how climbing stairs could be hard to do. I would say try to stay on one level and have everything you need on that level.
You can only lift the baby and his/her weight is your limit. You can't even carry him or her in the car seat. My OB didn't want me to drive for at least 6 weeks after, although many woman on here say their OB said they could a whole lot sooner (like after a couple or so weeks).
You have to worry about not doing to much because you don't want the cut to open again. This goes for inside (the uterus) and the one outside. So housework and such needs to be left to someone else.
I agree with the PP....with my daughter, I was told not to lift anything that was heavier than her and to take it easy. I was sent home with pain meds and I believe only took them for 2 days post discharge, just because I don't care for the way I feel on pain meds. I did take extra strength Tylenol and that helped quite a bit.
Don't over do it, even if you think 'oh, that's not heavy' or 'i can do this myself', because as stated from another poster the incision can open up. Mine did, and I had to get home health care to come out 2x a day to clean and pack the incision. I was expected to go back to work in 6 weeks, but instead was out the full 12 weeks because of it opening.
Csections aren't all that bad, at all....in my opinion. Just take it easy and remember although routine, its still major surgery, so be safe and ask for help.
HTH,
Heather
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Ooh, I didn't even think of that. Our bedrooms are on the 2nd story, as well. I think I could sleep in the living room with LO in a PnP if I needed to, though. We'll see what happens, I guess. Something else to think about...
Maybe I just got lucky with my first little one, but I really didn't have too tough a time after my c-section.
We live in a two story home, too. LO stayed in our room in a cradle for the first few months, though, so we didn't have a lot of up and down. When we were ready to be upstairs for the night, my husband carried LO up the stairs and I followed. We kept diapers/bottle supplies with us upstairs so we basically moved upstairs in the night hours. In the morning, when I was ready to be downstairs for the day, my husband carried her back downstairs. I really only remember the stairs being a challenge (and even then I just had to take it slow) the first few days home.
Now, all that said, I did not carry laundry around, lift things other than our LO, or do anything else even close to strenuous.
My husband was home the first two weeks of LO's life. We were okay to be on our own by the time he returned to work.