My husband and I have been married for 5 years and recently started talking about having children. He was ready to start trying, but I was a little hesitant and felt like I wanted to wait another year. We decided to switch over to condoms as our primary method of birth control and I stopped taking my pill. Well I recently found out I was pregnant and I was pretty shocked even though I know condoms aren't 100% effective.
Here is where I really need help though. My husband admitted the other night that he had been tampering with the condoms in order to get me pregnant. I am so hurt and shocked and feel betrayed! How could he do that to me? We are supposed to be a partnership and make these decisions together, but he thought that if I got pregnant now I would realize that I really didn't want to wait that year. I honestly don't know what to do. I am living in the guest room right now because I can't stand to be near him.
What would you do? Any advice is appreciated.