It irritated me to no end when I was pregnant with DD that everyone wanted to rattle off a list of names for me to "yea" or "nay". Then when I'd share our short list, they'd tell us which they didn't like. We ended up naming DD what most people didn't like and it was very uncomfortable. This time, the discussion is between DH and I. We don't even talk about it around DD. DD nicknamed LO Baby Roar (no clue why) and it's stuck. Every time I call her that, people pipe in with "You can't call a child Roar!" or "How about __________?" or "I looked up meanings for ___________." I'm not an idiot. I'm not going to name my kid Roar. And I didn't ask for opinions. We've made it perfect clear we don't name our babies until we meet them, and believe it is just DH and my decision. It just infuriates me, and I'm sure I'm being unreasonable. I don't snap at anyone (except my mom!) about it, and I guess I'm just venting to you.