I am sorry for all your losses. I know how you feel, I went in for my first ob apt a week ago and was told there was no heart beat. I bawled. The doc wanted to be sure she was reading the ultrasound correctly so she sent me down to radiology and they could not find a heart beat either. So we went to schedule a D&C. I went in for the apt this past monday and the doc said he wouldnt do a D&C because the yolk sac wasnt collapsed and my cervix was still closed and hard. I have been having cramps (like period cramps for 3.5 wks) and one day of spotting, hence the ultrasound during the first ob apt. He saw some blood above the baby but said that could be from a vanishing twin thing but we never saw another baby since the ultrasounds were performed 3 wks after my cramps started. the cramps have gone down in their intensity since monday. I guess my question is, has anyone gone through anything like this? This has been quite the emotional roller coaster having been told I was carrying a non-viable pregnancy twice then have been given some hope. I am so confused and there isnt much on "collapsed yolk sacs" on the internet. please any advice would be great.