By what I've read on this board, i'm extremely tacky.... I dont see what the big deal is about planning your own baby shower - it's for me, so why not do it how i'd like it? I enjoy planning things like this. I really dont have anyone I can trust to plan it for me, and my mother is helping me with a lot. The friend who I wanted
to plan it, found out she's pregnant and due 6 days after me and would be too much for her. No one has to know I was the one doing all the planning.... and my name wont be on the invitation as the host. I'll have someone host it.
so, flame away if you must, but i'm going to do what i want. Tacky and all.