This is more of a vent but DH isn't home and i need to get this out before I explode, any advice on how to handle the situation is more then welcome
My In-laws are really starting to push it they don't think that my DD is important enough to be buckled in a car seat when they drive. This is now the second time this has happened that im aware of they act like it doesn't matter. We were just leaving walmart i had buckled my nephew into his seat and was about to buckle my DD when they started to drive away i asked them to stop and wait and they said oh its only a parking lot and continued onto the busy street all the while DD isn't buckled in yet, and wouldn't listen to me when i told them to stop. I am beyond mad and they think i'm just over reacting and they don't take anything i say seriously so i have to wait for DH to get home to deal with it. Last time they let my SIL who claims she cant handle driving and "blacks" out every time she sees another vehicle coming drive all the way across town without buckling DD because it was her sisters wedding and left me at the house and took DD and didn't even have a car seat for her. The last time DH dealt with it and they said they would never do it again but no one apologized to me and then they go and do it again! AAHHHHHHHHH! As of right now I don't think i will ever let my in-laws drive with DD again, they don't respect any of my rules they just say i'm over reacting they are Grandma and can do what they want. I just don't know what i can do to get them to start to take me seriously.