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My husband has no problem with continuing our pre-pregnancy routine...he wants it all.the.time. I'm the one denying him so we don't do it that often; maybe once a week. I told him today I felt like I need to start stretching beforehand from now on because my legs are always so sore afterwards hahaha! I don't enjoy it like I used to. My belly is in the way and I feel like it's the focal point, so I try to keep it covered. Then there's the leg cramps I get in the middle of it. And then there was that one time that baby moved in the middle of it...yeah, that was it for me. Sex is not a three person activity in our household! It's mainly mental stuff for me. I think too much about certain things and then I'm over the whole sex thing. I let him finish, only because I don't want him to come begging me for more too soon. Sad, I know.
My sex drive hasn't gone down to say the least. I'm happy that I haven't had any discomfort down there (well, at least not yet!). My growing tummy does make it a little awkward, and harder to find a comfortable position. I'm definitely tired out faster!
LP0198:Sex? What's that? We haven't had sex in over a month because dh is completely freaked out by the idea that there's a baby in there. I gave up trying about two weeks ago because all he wants to do is cuddle. He's been super sweet and affectionate but no sex really sucks!
This exactly. My hubby is freaked out that he may accidentally put me into labor or something. Meanwhile, my sex drive is going strong and this "once every few weeks" thing is just not doing it for me!
Not me. J actually told me today he's interested in getting his testosterone levels checked. His desire has just totally gone downhill over the past 6-12 months.
We still are. I would say 1-2x/week but I don't like it all that much. I'm just putting out because it makes DH happy.
It's so swollen and tight down there that it feels weird. I do have to admit that it does feel good though when we get going (I think it's the extra blood) but I don't have any desire to initiate.