Our baby is almost 8 months old. My husband and I have not had sex since our daughter was born. Add to that another 3 1/2 months due to pregnancy complications. I can't tell you why we haven't had sex yet, I'm just exhausted. I do everything for the baby and around the house and have literally no drive whatsoever. I'm sure he's so frustrated he's ready to leave; he mentions that he "knows" I hate him, etc and I'm guessing this is why.
We didn't plan this baby and he doesn't want anymore. However, I'm dying to have another one. Yes, I know, sex is required. I guess what would you do? Would you see your OB and see if there's anything he/she can do or advise for more of a sex drive?
I've tried wine and it doesn't help. Maybe I need to get high and really relax (joking, of course).